Option 1
Supabase
Postgres + open-source stack; SQL-first.
Best for
Apps with relational data, teams that want to own their data layer, projects that may eventually self-host.
Pros
- Real Postgres — full SQL, joins, foreign keys, extensions (pgvector for AI/RAG)
- Row-level security written as SQL policies
- Open-source — every component runs locally with `supabase start`
- Self-hostable end-to-end on AWS / Hetzner / your own Postgres
- Edge Functions (Deno runtime, V8 isolates)
- Realtime via Postgres logical replication
- Built-in pgvector for AI embeddings + RAG
Cons
- Less mature than Firebase (founded 2020 vs 2011)
- Smaller ecosystem of integrations + tutorials
- Mobile SDK story still catching up (iOS / Android improving)
- Cold-start latency on Edge Functions occasionally noticeable